Episode 65

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7th Oct 2025

AND, Not OR - Is This the Wrong Paris?

“And, Not Or — Is This the Wrong Paris?”

In this week’s episode of Law Days and Lattes, host Sidney Wheelan, founder of the Wheelan Law Firm, reflects on finding meaning in life’s unexpected detours and what a new romantic comedy, The Wrong Paris, can teach us about balance, gratitude, and growth.

When the film’s main character discovers that her dream trip to “Paris” isn’t taking her to France, but to Paris, Texas, she’s forced to rethink what “the wrong place” really means. For Sidney, the story hit close to home because she grew up in Paris, Missouri, and understands that tension between small-town roots and big-world dreams.

Sidney shares her personal journey from a small town to travels around the world and the powerful lesson she’s learned along the way:

Life isn’t about choosing either/or.
It’s about embracing and.

You can love your hometown and explore the world.

You can be practical and creative.

You can care for others and chase your passions.

Key Takeaways:

  • Sometimes “the wrong Paris” moments in life lead you to the right lessons.
  • It’s possible to hold more than one truth, to live fully in both gratitude and ambition.
  • Ask yourself: Where are you saying either/or when you could be saying and?

💬 Join the Conversation:

Sidney invites listeners to share their own “Wrong Paris” stories, those moments when life surprised you and turned out better than expected.

🌟 Coming Soon:

Sidney also hints at something new, an upcoming community designed for professionals who want to build legacy, grow their businesses, stay healthy, and live with purpose. Stay tuned for details!

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Until next time, grab your favorite latte, hold your loved ones tight, and have a great week! ☕

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Law Days & Lattes
Welcome to Law Days & Lattes, a unique blend of law, business, and a warm cup of wisdom. Your host, Sidney Wheelan, is not just an attorney but also a real estate investor and entrepreneur. This podcast is your one-stop source for legal insights, business strategies, and so much more.

Whether you’re a seasoned professional, an ambitious entrepreneur, or someone seeking guidance, Law Days & Lattes is the podcast for you. We aim to empower our listeners with valuable business strategies and insights into navigating the legal landscape.

But we’re not just about law and business. We believe in living a well-rounded life, so we’ll also touch on topics related to lifestyle, finance, health, fitness, and travel. After all, a well-lived life encompasses so much more. Join us on this journey as we explore the various facets of life over a warm cup of wisdom.

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About your host

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Sidney Wheelan

Sidney is a seasoned lawyer with over 25 years of experience in the field of law. Throughout her extensive career, she has worked with a wide range of clients, from individuals to businesses, providing them with high-quality legal representation and counsel. Her exceptional legal skills and dedication to her clients have earned her a reputation as a skilled negotiator and litigator.​​

In 2016, Sidney decided to take her career to the next level by opening her own practice, Wheelan Law -- specializing in personal injury, estate planning and business law. However, she understands that all cases are unique and focuses on providing personalized legal services tailored to her clients' specific needs.

​Recently, Sidney embarked on a new endeavor to renovate the vacant Merrell University building in the historic downtown area of Moberly, MO. The commercial space is now home to Wheelan Law and an assortment of other local businesses.

Sidney is known for her compassionate and client-focused approach to law. Her expertise, professionalism, and dedication to her clients have made her a highly sought-after lawyer in Mid-Missouri.