Episode 68

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31st Oct 2025

Don’t Let Fear Haunt You — Real-Life Legal Nightmares That Could Have Been Avoided

🎃 Episode 68: Don’t Let Fear Haunt You — Real-Life Legal Nightmares That Could Have Been Avoided

This Halloween, we’re not talking about ghosts or goblins — we’re talking about something even scarier: the real-life legal nightmares that happen when fear keeps people from getting professional advice.

Host Sidney Wheelan, attorney and founder of The Wheelan Law Firm, shares stories from her own experience about clients who let fear of cost, paperwork, or “bad news” stand in their way — and what it ended up costing them.

👻 In this episode:

  • The hidden fears that stop people from getting legal help.
  • Real stories of what happens when you let fear take the wheel:
  • The Surviving Spouse Nightmare — when a name left off a deed changes everything.
  • The Special Needs Trap — how “saving money” online cost a family vital benefits.
  • The Vanishing Beneficiary — an ex-spouse who came back from the paperwork grave.
  • The DIY Will Disaster — a free online form that turned into a probate horror story.
  • The Business Owner’s Curse — when no contracts mean no protection.

🕯️ Key takeaway:

Ignoring fear doesn’t make it disappear — it only lets it grow. The best way to fight fear is to shine a light on it. A conversation with a lawyer can save you from the real-life monsters that hide in procrastination.

💼 Episode quote:

“The monsters under the bed aren’t nearly as scary as the real-life consequences of inaction.”

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Law Days & Lattes
Welcome to Law Days & Lattes, a unique blend of law, business, and a warm cup of wisdom. Your host, Sidney Wheelan, is not just an attorney but also a real estate investor and entrepreneur. This podcast is your one-stop source for legal insights, business strategies, and so much more.

Whether you’re a seasoned professional, an ambitious entrepreneur, or someone seeking guidance, Law Days & Lattes is the podcast for you. We aim to empower our listeners with valuable business strategies and insights into navigating the legal landscape.

But we’re not just about law and business. We believe in living a well-rounded life, so we’ll also touch on topics related to lifestyle, finance, health, fitness, and travel. After all, a well-lived life encompasses so much more. Join us on this journey as we explore the various facets of life over a warm cup of wisdom.

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Sidney Wheelan

Sidney is a seasoned lawyer with over 25 years of experience in the field of law. Throughout her extensive career, she has worked with a wide range of clients, from individuals to businesses, providing them with high-quality legal representation and counsel. Her exceptional legal skills and dedication to her clients have earned her a reputation as a skilled negotiator and litigator.​​

In 2016, Sidney decided to take her career to the next level by opening her own practice, Wheelan Law -- specializing in personal injury, estate planning and business law. However, she understands that all cases are unique and focuses on providing personalized legal services tailored to her clients' specific needs.

​Recently, Sidney embarked on a new endeavor to renovate the vacant Merrell University building in the historic downtown area of Moberly, MO. The commercial space is now home to Wheelan Law and an assortment of other local businesses.

Sidney is known for her compassionate and client-focused approach to law. Her expertise, professionalism, and dedication to her clients have made her a highly sought-after lawyer in Mid-Missouri.