Episode 42

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21st Jan 2025

Financially Fearless: Breaking the Dependence

Financially Fearless – Breaking the Dependence

Introduction

  • Welcome to Law Days and Lattes, your go-to podcast for family and business legal insights.
  • New series focused on empowering women with tools to take control of their financial futures.
  • Actionable strategies, common pitfalls, and expert advice tailored to women’s unique challenges.

Why Financial Independence is Non-Negotiable

  • Dependence is risky—relationships change, jobs come and go, and emergencies happen.
  • Nearly half of U.S. women rely on a partner for financial planning.
  • 80% of women outlive male partners and will need to manage finances independently.
  • Real-life example: Sidney’s mother’s journey through widowhood highlights the importance of financial control.

Legal Documents Every Woman Needs

  • Will: Ensures assets go to the intended people and avoids state-imposed decisions.
  • Power of Attorney (POA): Appoints a trusted individual to handle financial decisions if incapacitated.
  • Healthcare Proxy: Designates someone to make medical decisions if you’re unable to.
  • Action Step: Set a deadline to create or update these documents.

Taking Ownership of Your Finances

  • Step 1: Open accounts in your name (checking, savings, retirement) with designated beneficiaries.
  • Step 2: Track income, expenses, and savings using apps or spreadsheets.
  • Step 3: Educate yourself on personal finance through books, podcasts, or courses.
  • Pro Tip: Understand and review financial statements even if someone else handles them.

Common Pitfalls and How to Avoid Them

  • Mistake 1: Trusting without verifying—review all financial documents and statements.
  • Mistake 2: Delaying financial planning—start now, not after a major life event.
  • Mistake 3: Underestimating small steps—consistent, small actions lead to big results.

Final Thoughts and Next Steps

  • Financial independence is about empowerment, confidence, and freedom.
  • Challenge: Take one action step this week (e.g., open an account or create a will).
  • Next episode will cover "Understanding and Negotiating Contracts."
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Welcome to Law Days & Lattes, a unique blend of law, business, and a warm cup of wisdom. Your host, Sidney Wheelan, is not just an attorney but also a real estate investor and entrepreneur. This podcast is your one-stop source for legal insights, business strategies, and so much more.

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Sidney Wheelan

Sidney is a seasoned lawyer with over 25 years of experience in the field of law. Throughout her extensive career, she has worked with a wide range of clients, from individuals to businesses, providing them with high-quality legal representation and counsel. Her exceptional legal skills and dedication to her clients have earned her a reputation as a skilled negotiator and litigator.​​

In 2016, Sidney decided to take her career to the next level by opening her own practice, Wheelan Law -- specializing in personal injury, estate planning and business law. However, she understands that all cases are unique and focuses on providing personalized legal services tailored to her clients' specific needs.

​Recently, Sidney embarked on a new endeavor to renovate the vacant Merrell University building in the historic downtown area of Moberly, MO. The commercial space is now home to Wheelan Law and an assortment of other local businesses.

Sidney is known for her compassionate and client-focused approach to law. Her expertise, professionalism, and dedication to her clients have made her a highly sought-after lawyer in Mid-Missouri.